Map your nervous system patterns and discover values-aligned pathways from discomfort toward connection, authenticity, and self-compassion
This assessment takes about 10-15 minutes. Your responses will generate a personalized report with VR session prompts designed for your specific patterns.
Your responses are confidential and used only to generate your personalized report. We do not share your information with third parties.
The ACT Matrix begins with identifying your internal experiences—the thoughts and beliefs that create discomfort and often drive reactive behaviors.
Your Anterior Cingulate Cortex (ACC) monitors for discrepancies between expected and actual outcomes. When it detects a mismatch (prediction error), it triggers an emotional signal that feels uncomfortable.
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When discomfort arises, the brain seeks relief through dopamine-driven behaviors. These "away moves" provide temporary escape but often take us further from what truly matters.
Your Ventral Tegmental Area (VTA) synthesizes dopamine in anticipation of relief—before you even get it. When the expected relief doesn't fully materialize, the Ventral Pallidum adjusts expectations and rationalizes to salvage partial reward.
Research shows dopamine release in the Nucleus Accumbens creates a brief sense of safety—approximately 90 seconds. The brain signals: "Whatever produced this dopamine will keep you alive for the next 90 seconds." Then the dopamine degrades, replaced by HPA axis activation (stress hormones), and the cycle restarts.
Now let's trace how a specific trigger moves through your nervous system. Think of a recent situation where you got "hooked" by discomfort.
Unlike dopamine (which drives seeking and achievement), oxytocin supports connection, contentment, and being present with what matters.
Oxytocin (released during trust, connection, and care) provokes feelings of contentment, calmness, and security. Unlike dopamine's fleeting "hit," oxytocin supports sustained wellbeing through relationship and presence.
Understanding the difference between these two states is crucial for breaking the limbic loop.
Satisfaction requires conditions to be met. Contentment exists independent of conditions. The goal is not to eliminate satisfaction-seeking but to build a foundation of contentment so your sense of okayness does not depend entirely on achievement or external validation.
Effective regulation requires awareness of both body signals and mental content.
Now we map your oxytocin-based actions—behaviors that move you toward your values, even when discomfort is present.
A personalized map of your nervous system patterns and values-aligned pathways
This assessment isn't about fixing what's broken—it's about building capacity. Your nervous system developed these patterns adaptively. Now you're training the flexibility to choose your response.